Let me tell you a story about a few lucky ducks.
Last summer my kids decided once again that we should hatch duck eggs. We had been hatching eggs for the past three summers or so but this time around there was an added tension. This year was the first year we had… a dog!
Now this dog came out of nowhere, literally. He was found roaming the streets and while his unexpected arrival had brought many new dimensions to our undogged life, the one thing we were hoping not to change, was the summer hatching.
So we built a fence. A sturdy one at that. We prayed. We researched dogs and ducks. We prayed. We hoped. And in a few weeks they arrived.
I love that picture. That’s my Isabelle holding her beloved ducks. It’s hard to explain how much my daughter loves her ducks, except to say… well just look at the picture again. It is worth ten thousand words.
For a while everything was fine. The dog and the duckies were cohabiting peacefully outside and it seemed like the precaution of the fence plus all our prayers was exactly what was needed to prevent disaster.
But we were wrong.
I remember so clearly that night when Isabelle’s panicked shrills turned my body cold as I raced down the stairs to the backyard where she was.
There she stood screaming in the yard in the middle of what we had feared. I rushed her crying little body inside the house, leaving behind 6 dead ducklings. The dog had jumped the fence and in attempt to play with them, went too far and killed them.
God had spared six of the duckies and from then on they were called the “lucky ducks.” But that night, my daughter for the first time, felt the deep sting of losing something she had loved so very much. And it hurt. That night when we prayed I promised her that one day, God in time would heal her hurt and one day it wouldn’t hurt as bad as it did that night.
~To bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair.
Many weeks passed by from that one night. But then one summer evening as she was riding her bike around the park she abruptly stepped on her brakes, made a U-turn back to me and said “Mom, guess what? It doesn’t hurt anymore. My heart doesn’t hurt. God really did take it away. I still miss my duckies but I’m not sad anymore. I’m happy again!”
And with a smile on her face that lit up that summer night, she rode off.
You know what? I wouldn’t take back that horrible night for anything in the world, because she learned a truth about God that can only be learned through tears and heartache…
God can work a miracle in our hearts.
I don’t know how he does it. How he makes this great exchange of mourning to joy, despair to praise but He does. And I guess if we could figure that out, it wouldn’t be so miraculous.
And because Isabelle experienced this clearing of pain for herself, the truth in those verses are real to her.
And they are to me too.
9 Replies to “The Lucky Ducks”
I love your stories, Geri, and the great truths you pull from them! Thank you for sharing this!
Beautiful Geri. Who’d a thunk I would cry over dead ducklings. I suppose the tears weren’t for the ducks, they were for the understanding that God cares so very deeply for us. Thank you for the reminder. Love you. Barb
Sweet story… and so true.
This is beautiful Geri. Life and death are part of what we all experience at times. I remember losing pets at a young age too. I think it helps prepare the way for when we lose a loved one, whether a grandparent, parent, sibling, or friend. We grieve for a while and remember forever, but our hearts can be healed. Thanks for sharing.
Geri, I thank the Lord for you and the way that He is using your life to share His lessons of truth and love!! God’s Word speaks into our life and reveals His purposes and plans in such powerful way.
You make me proud, Geri!! God bless you my dear friend.
Geri – so much grace in the miracles God brings to our lives. No doubt, He knew exactly what was needed in your daughter’s precious sorrow!
Ger, love the truths you pull out of everyday life…and how you teach your children:) Thank you for letting us be a part of it. You are such a blessing!!
I love how you can teach your kids of our gracious, loving powerful God. He definately gives you so much wisdom. I can only hope to be half of the amazing mom you are!! I love you
Great application of scripture to some of those very difficult experiences! Thanks for sharing.